are you what happens to you

 Sometimes I have to remind myself: Being divorced isn't a personality trait. 

I was going through the flyer that was handed to my by an usher after mass, and I said, "Oh my god Andrew! Good Shepherd has a Divorce Care class!"

Andrew goes, "Why do you care, you're not divorced."

I know why I cared. I felt very alone in the Catholic church for being divorced. I had no idea that they had programs that extended love and healing to people like me. That is why I cared. 

But in Andrew's eye, I'm not divorced. I'm married, and happily at that! So why would I jump to identify as divorced?



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